It is the things in common that make relationships enjoyable, bit it is the little differences that make them interesting.


It takes a lot of experience of life to see why some relationships last and others do not. But we do not have to wait for a crisis to get an idea of the future of a particular relationship. Our behavior in little every incidents tells us a great deal.


It takes two men to make a brother.


Kindness and intelligence don't always deliver us from the pitfalls and traps: there are always failures of love, of will, of imagination. There is no way to take the danger out of human relationships.


Long-term commitment to an intimate relationship with one person of whatever sex is an essential need that people have in order to breed the qualities out of which nurturing thought can rise.


My attachment has neither the blindness of the beginning, nor the microscopic accuracy of the close of such liaisons.


Now the whole dizzying and delirious range of sexual possibilities has been boiled down to that one big, boring, bulimic word. RELATIONSHIP.


Nowadays love is a matter of chance, matrimony a matter of money and divorce a matter of course.


One can find women who have never had one love affair, but it is rare indeed to find any who have had only one.


People must be taken as they are, and we should never try make them or ourselves better by quarreling with them.


People who are having a love-sex relationship are continuously lying to each other because the very nature of the relationship demands that they do, because you have to make a love object of this person, which means that you editorialize about them. You cut out what you don't want to see, you add this if it isn't there. And so therefore you're building a lie.


Relationships are like a dance, with visible energy racing back and forth between partners. Some relationships are the slow, dark dance of death.


Relationships are the hallmark of the mature person.


Relationships based on obligation lack dignity.


Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.


Surely there must be some way to find a husband or, for that matter, merely an escort, without sacrificing one's privacy, self-respect, and interior decorating scheme. For example, men could be imported from the developing countries, many parts of which are suffering from a man excess, at least in relation to local food supply.


The ''Inside-Out'' approach to personal and interpersonal effectiveness means to start first with self; even more fundamentally, to start with the most inside part of self — with your paradigms, your character, and your motives. The inside-out approach says that private victories precede public victories, that making and keeping promises to ourselves recedes making and keeping promises to others. It says it is futile to put personality ahead of character, to try to improve relationships with others before improving ourselves.


The bonds that unite another person to our self exist only in our mind.


The easiest kind of relationship is with ten thousand people, the hardest is with one.


The formula for achieving a successful relationship is simple: you should treat all disasters as if they were trivialities but never treat a triviality as if it were a disaster.

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